Oxymoronic Musings of SolidlyShaky
I'm Lindsi. Just a young woman with big hopes, immense dreams, and loads of personality! I'm eccentric and have eclectic tastes. I'm different, but I can guarantee you we have at least one thing in common. Don't believe me? Watch and see... :-)
Scared of lonely?
Ok, I know some people will take this the wrong way, but I’m going to say it anyway, in hopes that even if you’re offended, you’ll heed my words or at least take them into consideration. Some of you, ladies and gentlemen, are holding on to relationships that never should have come about in the first place. You’re fighting tooth and nail for someone you aren’t even supposed to be with, so afraid of being alone you’re willing to sacrifice happiness. You’ve realized you aren’t compatible with an individual, yet you’re still holding on, shelving parts of your self and personality to become someone you’re not supposed to be for someone you’re not supposed to be with. Anyone who truly loves you will love ALL of you. This is not to say that you have nothing to work on or improve, because we have self-improvement projects to work on. However, if you feel the need to be someone you aren’t, your relationship is not working. One of the biggest reasons many of you cannot let go of these unhealthy relationships is because of premarital sex, but that’s a whole other subject in and of itself. Yes, there will be wounds inflicted and scars left. People who love each other hurt each other, that’s bound to happen. But would you sit there and let someone douse you with gasoline, then light you on fire? No, right? But some of you are figuratively doing, and allowing, that very same thing, staying in these relationships that aren’t meant to be. What’s my point in saying all of this? Relationships aren’t a cakewalk, but they’re also not supposed to be a battlefield. Know when to let it go.
questions...ask some!
- Yellow: When you get older, where would you want to live?
- Orange: Where do you want to be right now?
- Lilac: What is your dream vacation?
- Beige: What is your favorite dream?
- White: Who was your first kiss?
- Purple: Who was your last kiss?
- Tangerine: Give a description of who you like.
- Gray: Share a relationship story.
- Green: Share a family story.
- Gold: Share a story that makes you smile.
- Black: Share something you did embarrassingly.
- Blue: Are you still friends with the people you met in elementary school?
- Magenta: What is something you barely tell anyone?
- Red: What are your hobbies?
- Violet: What college do you plan to attend?
- Brown: Would you rather have a relationship or friend with benefit? Explain.
- Peach: Who is your favorite teacher so far?
- Pink: What is the meaning behind your url?
